Anyone who knows my family knows we are dog people. It’s a love—or perhaps an obsession—that began two decades ago with Bear, an abused sheltie, and Annie, a mix of multiple breeds, all of which we presumed were actually dog. Annie and Bear were up in years when we moved to Garrett Park, and they didn’t live here for long. Annie succumbed to an enlarged heart, and Bear had a stroke.
When Bear died, we swore he was our last dog, and we kept that promise for four days. We welcomed a sheltie puppy named Belle, followed several months later by her littermate Lily. These two sisters had a little Thelma and Louise in them. One afternoon, a woman pulled up in a station wagon, with two black dogs in the back. She’d found them on opposite sides of the tracks, attempting to catch a freight train. Underneath the coating of grime lurked our dogs. Another day, these mostly white dogs rolled their way through a freshly mown lawn and came out day-glo green.
Two years ago, on President’s Day, Lily died from a rare liver disease. Belle is still with us, but she is in decline. She shares her existence (mostly willingly) with Tess, a former stray from West Virginia believed to be an American Eskimo dog, and Piper, a cross between a sheltie and a collie rescued from a dog hoarder in Georgia.
Somehow, though, three just didn’t turn out to be enough. This summer—as if to prove, first, that you should never let your spouse volunteer in an animal shelter and, second, that a spouse’s heart is generally bigger than her sense of what the neighbors will think—we brought home Cora. A nine-pound Pomeranian, she was a breeding mother from a horrific puppy mill in Tennessee. She had likely never been out of a chicken-wire cage, having been bred during every cycle of her 5 years. Her first days in our family, Cora spent most of her time on the deck, trotting in a small, counterclockwise circle, presumably the only pattern of movement she knew. She didn’t understand affection, because she had never been held or petted. For her entire life, she’d been a breeding machine.
After a day or two, I tried to get Cora to take a walk. Within a few uncertain blocks, something clicked. She began to prance at the end of the leash. She was fearful of people (and the ice cream truck) but not of the world. After that, we would walk in the evening for an hour, and then she would sleep in our bed, safe in the crook of my left arm. More than once, the thought occurred to me that if her life were to end tomorrow, we’d given her a better today than she’d ever known.
Columbus Day weekend, Cora’s tomorrows with us came to an end. She slipped out of the yard and, according to the few people who caught a glimpse of her, ran as if her life depended on it. Just what happened to that life, whether she was picked up or perished, we do not know.
It was, however, in the hours and days after Cora disappeared that we came to truly understand what it means to live in this town. It had nothing to do with houses or yards or gardens. It had nothing to do with historic preservation. It had nothing to do with trees. It had nothing to do with living in an enclave protected from the encroaching traffic of Rockville Pike and Connecticut Avenue. And it most certainly had nothing to do with a silly lawsuit about setbacks. It had everything to do with people who cared.
The weekend Cora went missing, a brigade of flashlight-toting neighbors came out and searched late into the evenings. I saw kids with missing-dog flyers on their bikes and scooters. I saw a woman and her husband walking through the woods gently calling her name. As we searched, not a single neighbor complained about the flyers we slid in their doors and under their windshield wipers. With just one exception, no one whined about the recorded phone message about her. Neighbors volunteered to help search on Saturday and Sunday and Monday. Garrett Parkers allowed us to peer into their yards and sheds, often more than once. People we didn’t know called to ask if she’d been found or simply to express their sympathies.
Yes, Cora was a dog, and not all of us see pets in the same light. Yet, she was precious to us. To all of you who shared that sentiment or who simply wanted to help a family in distress, please accept our deepest thanks.
This story has an epilogue. His name is Griff, a feisty, 15-week-old ball of Pomeranian fluff (pictured above) from an Amish puppy mill in Ohio, where he would have been consigned to a life not much better than Cora’s. Griff has made us smile again. He will never replace Cora, nor will we ever repair the hole she left in our hearts. That’s probably not a surprise. Anyone who knows my family knows we are dog people.